Patterns and programs can be created during our gestation in the womb. Whatever is going on with our parents affects us. If one or both of our parents consider an abortion or giving the child up for adoption creates a program of abandonment and rejection. A child being given up for adoption creates abandonment issues. Often this abandonment repeats when the child grows into a teenager when the adoptive parents kick the teen out of the house before the age of eighteen.
These patterns created in our childhood continue to repeat. Perhaps one of our parents was an alcoholic, then we go on to attract alcoholic partners or even landlords. These limiting beliefs can be cleared and are what I do with my coaching clients.